by jmalouff | Dec 29, 2011 | Uncategorized
How good are you as an auto driver compared to others? If you say better than average, you give the same answer as about 80% of people. If we ask university roommates how well they will be doing in five years and how well their roommate will be doing in five years,...
by jmalouff | Dec 19, 2011 | Uncategorized
A secret story of 9/11 came out recently. Two fighter pilots are assigned to destroy the last airliner taken over by terrorists before it struck some iconic American target. The pilots had no ammunition on board. So how could they destroy the airliner? Their plan was...
by jmalouff | Dec 17, 2011 | Uncategorized
I gave an invited talk this week about “advanced” treatment of anxiety disorders. i started by asking: How are a fighter pilot and an anxiety client alike? I described a scenario where the pilot of a F-35 (an “advanced” fighter still in...
by jmalouff | Nov 25, 2011 | Coping, Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology, Uncategorized, Well-Being
I am thinking about Thanksgiving in the U.S. For some time Leah Dieterich has been writing a blog (thxthxthx.com) giving thanks to ordinary aspects of life. In a recent posting, she wrote: “Dear Not Drinking, Thanks for being like drinking but with fewer...
by jmalouff | Nov 6, 2011 | Uncategorized
I just read a book titled “Crucial Conversations” (2012) about how we engage in conversations that are crucial in the sense the conversations involve opposing opinions, high stakes, and strong emotions. These conversations occur with family members, fellow...
by jmalouff | Oct 19, 2011 | Uncategorized
George Washington became a hero at a battle in the French and Indian War. When the Indians launched a surprise attack against British and colonial troops, and the British commander was wounded, George rode his horse about giving commands and rallying the troops. The...