The festive season is upon us yet again, a time when we attend seasonal events, dinner parties or special gatherings. The etiquette of gift giving might seem obvious to most people, but perhaps it’s worth reminding ourselves of some of them. Here are 6 gift giving etiquette rules you should know:
- Never arrive empty-handed.
Always bring a small gift, even if you haven’t been asked to. Remember that the host had to make the effort to host the dinner party at their place. A small gift such as a candle, wine, or even home-made cookies will be greatly appreciated by the host.
- You don’t have to reciprocate the expensive gift you received.
Don’t feel guilty if the gift you gave is less expensive than the one you received. You don’t have to apologise because you’ve also put your heart and soul into its preparation.
- If appropriate, open the gift you’ve been given in front of the giver.
By opening the gift in front of the giver, you have the opportunity to show your appreciation and express your gratitude.
- Don’t expect to drink the same bottle of wine you brought to a dinner party.
If you are going to gift the host a bottle of wine, don’t expect to drink it at the dinner party, unless you have been asked to bring a specific wine that has been paired with the food being served.
- Don’t gift cash.
Giving cash shows that didn’t put any thought into gift preparation. If you are out of gift ideas, consider a gift card.
- Don’t give the receipt with a gift.
Adding a receipt to the gift may indicate that you are not very confident with the gift you prepared. However, it’s ok to keep the receipt in case it’s the wrong size or colour.