by jmalouff | Nov 12, 2019 | Positive psychology, Social psychology, Strategies for Teachers, Well-Being
About 20 years ago psychologist Arthur Aron developed a set of 36 questions that can help dating individuals fall in love. The questions include: “If you could wake up tomorrow having gained one quality or ability, what would it be?” You can find the other...
by jmalouff | Nov 11, 2019 | Language, Strategies for Teachers
When I teach Behavior Modification, I tell my students that they are learning how to serve as a “bridge over troubled waters.” My words include a metaphor — a figure of speech that is not literally true. Metaphors have long been an important part of...
by jmalouff | Nov 11, 2019 | Emotions, Human Thinking and Behavior, Strategies for Teachers, Work
Australian schools don’t smack pupils anymore. As years pass, fewer and fewer parents smack their children. I was never punished at all as a child, except that my mother tried to pinch me sometimes. She had arthritis, so the pinches never hurt. Parents nowadays...
by jmalouff | Jan 17, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Organizational Psychology, Strategies for Teachers
When Ed Koch was mayor of New York City, he would walk about town asking people how he was doing as mayor. Being New Yorkers, the people were willing to tell him, in graphic detail at times. My university asks my students how satisfied they were with my...