by jmalouff | Nov 26, 2018 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology, Social psychology
“Margo” won a national award for her work. A co-worker sent Margo an email commending her. Margo did not reply. Another co-worker saw Margo in a corridor and asked her what she did to win the award. Margo replied that she did not want to discuss the...
by jmalouff | Nov 25, 2018 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology, Well-Being
We think with distaste of bad decisions we made. Hitler decided to invade Poland. I bought an MG Midget. Along with our bad decisions are many good decisions. One of my best decisions was to move to Australia to take an academic position at the University of New...
by jmalouff | Nov 22, 2018 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Mental health problems, Positive psychology
Trying to help people increase their frustration tolerance is popular now among psychologists. I could have used more frustration tolerance this past week when I dealt with various technical and other problems as I tried to assign final grades for the term. Trying to...
by jmalouff | Nov 19, 2018 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology
I have been reading about a man who lived 500 years ago. He had three characteristics that made his life challenging: He was an illegitimate child, he was left-handed, and he was gay. As a young adult he applied for a position with a duke and listed ten...
by jmalouff | Nov 25, 2011 | Coping, Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology, Uncategorized, Well-Being
I am thinking about Thanksgiving in the U.S. For some time Leah Dieterich has been writing a blog (thxthxthx.com) giving thanks to ordinary aspects of life. In a recent posting, she wrote: “Dear Not Drinking, Thanks for being like drinking but with fewer...