by jmalouff | Aug 31, 2019 | Health-related behavior, Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology
Do you ever think of everyone who depends on you? They include your children, your parents, and your friends. You listen to their woes and share their triumphs. You give them a ride or a few dollars. You wish them well on their birthday. You tell them stories of your...
by jmalouff | Jul 18, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology
Once in a while I wake up wanting to do something original. You see, my life is almost entirely derivative. I go to my office and do my usual work. I teach and I comment on student work. I write about the results of research I have done. I go home...
by jmalouff | Apr 6, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology, Well-Being
You have heard of a bucket list? This is a list of what a person wants to do before kicking the bucket. No one knows the source of the expression “kicking the bucket.” One possibility is that it comes from the Middle-Ages execution of individuals who had to stand on...
by jmalouff | Apr 4, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Personality, Positive psychology
When Aldi opened a grocery store in my home town, Armidale, a few years ago, I wanted to be its first customer. So I arrived at the store 70 minutes before opening time. I reckoned that other people with the same goal would show up 60 minutes before opening time. I...
by jmalouff | Mar 8, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology
I used to work with a guy who was a wild dresser by Australian standards. Let’s call him Stan. He would wear to work suits with bright yellow and pink dress shirts, colourful suspenders and multi-coloured sneakers. Stan, originally from Ireland, moved back...
by jmalouff | Mar 5, 2019 | Coping, Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology, Well-Being
You may have heard the saying that every cloud has a silver lining. Individuals who look for the silver lining look for good aspects of bad events. For instance, when I found out that I had developed glaucoma, I thought that if I had not gone for a vision check...