by jmalouff | Nov 10, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Social psychology
When I was young, I wanted to sing for a rock band and be a big star. As luck would have it, I had no singing voice. My desire for fame did not end when I grew up. Maybe I could become a famous novelist. I never wrote the first word of a novel. Nevertheless, I still...
by jmalouff | Nov 5, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Teaching
You are a teacher. You teach your children, your grandchildren, your employees. You teach the players on the sports team you coach, your religious flock, your dog. You may try to teach your cat a few things – good luck with that. Some of us get paid to teach. I am in...
by jmalouff | Nov 3, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior
When I was completing a PhD in clinical psychology, one of my classmates, Bob, came up with an idea for a prank. A few of us would fill the office of a classmate, Dan, with balloons. Bob, a financially-strapped student like the rest of us, rented an...
by jmalouff | Aug 31, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior, Organizational Psychology, Work
You may have heard the expression that fish and guests stink after three days. I have put “three” in a new saying: Leaders stink after three years. If you want evidence for the new saying, consider how long Australian Prime Ministers last before being rolled (voted...
by jmalouff | Aug 31, 2019 | Health-related behavior, Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology
Do you ever think of everyone who depends on you? They include your children, your parents, and your friends. You listen to their woes and share their triumphs. You give them a ride or a few dollars. You wish them well on their birthday. You tell them stories of your...
by jmalouff | Aug 29, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior
American researchers Robin Kowalski and Annie McCord asked a large number of workers who were at least 30 years old what advice they would give to their younger selves. The most common responses involved relationships, e.g., “Do. Not. Marry. Her.” Other advice...