by jmalouff | Mar 6, 2019 | Bereavement and Grief, Coping, Human Thinking and Behavior
Lots of people get cremated when they die. You know the saying: ashes to ashes. The family members of the deceased person then decide what to do with the ashes. The options are limitless. Some families keep the ashes in an urn. Some spread the ashes over...
by jmalouff | Mar 5, 2019 | Coping, Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology, Well-Being
You may have heard the saying that every cloud has a silver lining. Individuals who look for the silver lining look for good aspects of bad events. For instance, when I found out that I had developed glaucoma, I thought that if I had not gone for a vision check...
by jmalouff | Dec 13, 2018 | Bereavement and Grief, Coping, Emotions, Human Thinking and Behavior, Positive psychology, Well-Being
You have heard of the Serenity Prayer? It suggests that a person solve problems where possible and accept that some problems cannot be solved. Accepting what can’t be changed is important to living a happy life. A particular type of acceptance plays an...
by jmalouff | Dec 8, 2018 | Coping, Emotions, Human Thinking and Behavior, Mental health problems
Can writing about your emotions help you feel better? I tried this coping method several days ago, in preparation for talking about the method with employees of an Armidale social service agency. I followed the instructions I used in studies of the method with police...
by jmalouff | Dec 8, 2018 | Coping
Look round and you will see change happening and some people reacting with fear. Same-sex marriage has thrown some people for a loop. At the University of New England, a structural reorganization has led to angst. Change is hard psychologically on a person. We do not...
by jmalouff | Nov 15, 2018 | Animals, Coping, Well-Being
On a November weekend, as I was driving on the campus of the University of New England, I stopped the car to look at an echidna. As soon as I got out, two students in lab coats ran over and said that they had been looking out their lab window for months...