by jmalouff | Jun 6, 2019 | Coping, Emotions, Human Thinking and Behavior, Mental health problems
Is your life filled with shoulds? As in: I should have gone to work out, you should have come when you said you would, life should be easier than it is. Many people continually think with shoulds. The problem is that this thought ignores reality and makes us feel bad....
by jmalouff | Jun 6, 2019 | Health-related behavior
I’m shrinking. I bet you are too. As we get older, we tend to lose bone, cartilage, and muscle mass. These losses in the spinal area cause us to shrink in height. After age 40, an average person loses about one cm of height per decade. This height...
by jmalouff | Jun 6, 2019 | Coping, Mental health problems, Social Support
Psychologists believe in the power of social support to help people maintain physical and psychological health. Social support includes emotional or practical support. Emotional support might involve listening to a person and showing empathy and caring. Practical...
by jmalouff | Jun 6, 2019 | Coping, Emotions
Have you had embarrassing experiences? Want to hear some of mine? When I was a teen, I met a woman in her 20s who was on the run from another state for some small crime. We hung out a few times and then I got metal braces on my teeth. When she saw me in them, she...
by jmalouff | Jun 1, 2019 | Human Thinking and Behavior
Ten years ago I went with my three brothers to a Mexican restaurant in a small town near where we had lived as children. I ordered a tostada, a stiff, toasted tortilla with beans, cheese, and other ingredients on top. I added hot sauce, and the tostada looked...