by jmalouff | Jul 14, 2019 | Social psychology
A 55-year-old woman is in jail in Dubai for a Facebook-related act. The alleged offense: Calling her ex-husband’s new wife a horse. A nice female friend of mine once called her ex-husband’s new wife a dog. Sometimes replaced women call the new wife a cow or a...
by jmalouff | Jun 6, 2019 | Coping, Human Thinking and Behavior
British rower Annie Vernon recently wrote a book in which she described the agony of her team finishing second in the Beijing Olympics. She wanted and expected a gold medal and ended up with silver. Her story reminds me of the brother of one of my high school...
by jmalouff | Jun 6, 2019 | Coping, Emotions, Human Thinking and Behavior, Mental health problems
Is your life filled with shoulds? As in: I should have gone to work out, you should have come when you said you would, life should be easier than it is. Many people continually think with shoulds. The problem is that this thought ignores reality and makes us feel bad....
by jmalouff | Jun 6, 2019 | Health-related behavior
I’m shrinking. I bet you are too. As we get older, we tend to lose bone, cartilage, and muscle mass. These losses in the spinal area cause us to shrink in height. After age 40, an average person loses about one cm of height per decade. This height...
by jmalouff | Jun 6, 2019 | Coping, Mental health problems, Social Support
Psychologists believe in the power of social support to help people maintain physical and psychological health. Social support includes emotional or practical support. Emotional support might involve listening to a person and showing empathy and caring. Practical...