by jmalouff | Nov 12, 2019 | Positive psychology, Social psychology, Strategies for Teachers, Well-Being
About 20 years ago psychologist Arthur Aron developed a set of 36 questions that can help dating individuals fall in love. The questions include: “If you could wake up tomorrow having gained one quality or ability, what would it be?” You can find the other...
by jmalouff | Nov 11, 2019 | Coping, Mental health problems
There seems to be no limit to the objects that can be the subjects of phobias. Phobias exist when individuals feel great fear or disgust when exposed to some particular type of object. They avoid the object at all costs. I have treated clients for phobias involving...
by jmalouff | Nov 11, 2019 | Language, Strategies for Teachers
When I teach Behavior Modification, I tell my students that they are learning how to serve as a “bridge over troubled waters.” My words include a metaphor — a figure of speech that is not literally true. Metaphors have long been an important part of...
by jmalouff | Nov 11, 2019 | Emotions, Human Thinking and Behavior, Strategies for Teachers, Work
Australian schools don’t smack pupils anymore. As years pass, fewer and fewer parents smack their children. I was never punished at all as a child, except that my mother tried to pinch me sometimes. She had arthritis, so the pinches never hurt. Parents nowadays...
by jmalouff | Nov 11, 2019 | Emotions, Human Thinking and Behavior, Well-Being
When I first saw the Grand Canyon in northern Arizona, I experienced a feeling of wonder. I felt stunned, amazed. Babies must often experience a feeling of wonder, for instance when a parent first air-dances with them. Picture the big eyes of a baby seeing...