by jmalouff | Dec 13, 2025 | romantic relationships
Women sometimes encourage their romantic partner to be more vulnerable. The encouragement is more likely to succeed if the women use a term other than “vulnerable.” The word “vulnerable” means exposed to the risk of being harmed, either...
by jmalouff | Oct 17, 2025 | Social Support
The play Hedda Gabler by Henrik Ipsen (1890) is quite a drama! Commentaries correctly identify the patriarchal pressures on Hedda. However, the commentaries tend to miss one important influence: Hedda seemingly had a severe case of borderline personality...
by jmalouff | Oct 14, 2025 | Challenges, Dementia
Things I do to put off dementia: (1) Get plenty of exercise. (2) Eat a Mediterranian diet. (3) Keep working. (4) Play mind games — crosswords, Wordle, Connections, Spelling Bee. (4) Read books and magazines. (6) Keep socially active. (7) Avoid addictive...
by jmalouff | Jul 14, 2025 | Suppresion of women, Women's rights
How women are still suppressed by societal norms: Stigma for women about premarital sex, but not for men, Bridal veils and white for women (but not men) when getting married, High heels, makeup, corsets, bras, nylons, veils, more cosmetic surgery, Covering chest in...
by jmalouff | Jul 9, 2025 | Mental health problems
Psychotherapists have two main rivals: mood-altering substances and AI. I will address the main advantages and disadvantages of each rival. Mood-altering substances like alcohol are cheap, readily available, and socially acceptable. They help a person feel better,...