My mother was smart and quite a reader. Being a girl in a big family, she did not have parental support for going to university. She got a job as a secretary, got married, and had children. Her options were limited. Thinking about her experiences led me to consider how rights (and options) have increased for women over time.
Think of the options that women have gained over the years in most societies:
To obtain higher education
To vote
To wear pants in public
To write books
To publish research findings
To own property in their own name
To enter into contracts
To intentionally have a child without being married
To divorce
To run a business or company
To get elected to office
To work in all sorts of jobs
To wear “revealing” clothes in public
To play all sorts of sports
To speak about sexual activities
To use contraceptives
To have an abortion
To decline to marry
To decine to have children
To decline to have sex with a spouse or with anyone
To marry another woman (in some countries)
I am not sure which options became available to women when. The timing varies from one country to another.
What options remain closed to women (but open to men)? (1) Going topless in public. (2) Walking down a busy city street alone without being hassled. (3) Safely going for a run alone in a city after dark. I feel sure there are more options denied women but open to men., What would you add?
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Its a pity we had to fight to get that “right” and that it wasnt automatically available like it was for men.
I agree.